It was a party for the ages on this night in 1980 in Georgia. But I doubt many realized it at the time – they were too busy getting drunk and just having a good time!
Some hit bands are put together by committees (think the Monkees); others are built to be super-groups from the best of other bands (Asia, Led Zeppelin). Many get there by a group of people determined to be stars who studiously practice and write together for years. Then there’s R.E.M.
The most successful American alt rock band, and the pride of Athens, Georgia came together by accident on this day 44 years ago. The four knew each other somewhat; Michael Stipe hung out at Peter Buck’s workplace (Wuxtry Records); Mike Mills and Bill Berry were friends at the University Of Georgia there. Presumably they all knew one another and had some level of common musical interest and as we now know, some musical talent. However, they really didn’t come together with an aim to change the face of the musical landscape. They just decided to jam together a little to add some background noise to a friend’s party!
So it was that on an unseasonably cold spring night, what would become R.E.M. and about 300 others, mainly from the UofG, jammed into an abandoned Episcopal church on Oconee Street in Athens to throw a party for Kathleen O’Brien, who was celebrating her birthday. O’Brien worked at the campus radio station which no doubt endeared her to the boys in R.E.M. Even though it was in the words of Michael Stipe “a place that only students could have loved”, a good time was had by all by the few accounts, and the quartet played a handful of rather unmemorable covers of artists from Jonathan Richman to the Sex Pistols to the Stones. They played a couple of originals, rough versions of tracks that could eventually make the Murmur album or it’s indie predecessor, Chronic Town, though the exact tracklist appears lost in time, memory and beer suds. Songs like “Wolves, Lower” and “Gardening At Night” seemed among the first of theirs to become regular parts of their shows then.
And that might have been the end of the story if not for some unknown person’s greed. Or thirst. In true college form, the party was a “kegger”, with beer aplenty. Someone actually stole several kegs from the party. Poor student O’Brien had put down a deposit on the metal kegs and was on the hook for quite a few dollars. The musicians felt bad for her, and arranged to play a local bar – Tyrone’s OC – on May 6 to raise funds to pay her beer losses. In the meantime, they practised a bit and haphazardly settled on the name that would take them into the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame some 25 years later!
Tyrone’s burned down a couple of years later, but the music tourist can still see the steeple and part of the ruined church to this day.
While the band broke up some nine years ago, various members have at times worked together since and they seem on amicable terms. When “It’s the End Of The World As We Know It” made it back onto the charts in 2020 – nine years after they split up -, Mike Mills said “we certainly never saw that coming with this song…you just never know how it’s going to work out.” Same goes for starting a new band, or any other venture, but in R.E.M.’s case, that kegger turned out pretty well!